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Deal With Having A Problem

You have a problem. Now what do you do?

Everyone has problems. You can't avoid them. But you can choose how to handle them. Ignoring the problem only makes things worse. To do the right thing you need to deal with it. And dealing with the problem means talking about it.
Deal With Having A Problem
Do you have a problem?
Yes
No
Deal With Having A Problem
What is the problem?
Deal With Having A Problem
Why is this a problem?
Deal With Having A Problem
Is this really something to be concerned about?
Yes
No
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Is there anything you could have done to avoid failing?
Yes
No
Deal With Having A Problem
Are you going to try to solve this problem?
Yes
No
Deal With Having A Problem
If you don't have a problem you don't need to answer these questions. These questions should be answered when you have a problem.
Deal With Having A Problem
What would be a solution to the problem?
Deal With Having A Problem
Why aren't you going to try to solve your problem?
Deal With Having A Problem
Since you have a problem that you feel you don't have to be concerned with you can stop dealing with it. If the problem comes back you should consider dealing with it.
Deal With Having A Problem
Are you going to be satisfied with the way things will be if you don't solve this problem?
Yes
No
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Why should you be concerned about it?
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How can you achieve this solution?
Deal With Having A Problem
You have now dealt with having a problem. The next step is to actually try to achieve your solution.
Deal With Having A Problem
Even though you have a problem you are concerned about you have decided you aren't going to try to solve the problem. You have also decided you will be satisfied with the way things will be when you don't try to solve the problem. If it turns out you are not satisfied you should again deal with having a problem.
Deal With Having A Problem
If you are not going to be satisfied with the way things will be if you don't try to solve this problem then you should try to solve it. Go back and change your answer from saying you aren't going to try to solve this problem to saying you are going to try to solve it. Continue from there.