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Deal With Doing Something That Is Hard To Do

Are you doing something and finding it very hard to do? Is it starting to get to you?

You do things to achieve your goals. Sometimes it's easy and sometimes it isn't. When you find yourself doing something difficult you've got to talk about it. Talking about it will help you sort things out. The questions that follow are designed to get you to talk about the important parts of dealing with doing something that is hard to do.


Deal With Doing Something That Is Hard To Do
Are you doing something that is hard to do?
Yes
No
  
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What are you doing that is hard to do?
  
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Why is this hard to do?
  
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Are you going to continue doing this even though it is hard to do?
Yes
No
  
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Why have you decided to still do this even though it is hard to do?
  
Deal With Doing Something That Is Hard To Do
You are doing something that is hard to do and you have decided you are no longer going to do it. This means you have given up trying to get what you were working for. If you are comfortable with this and you can accept not achieving your goal then you have made the right decision. But realize some goals cannot be achieved without doing work that is difficult.

If you cannot accept not achieving your goal even though the work is hard to do then go back to the previous question and answer "yes".

Deal With Doing Something That Is Hard To Do
If you are not doing something that is hard to do you don't need to answer these questions. Answer these questions when you are actually doing something that is hard to do and you need to deal with it.

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Can you think of any way to make what you are doing easier?
Yes
No
  
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What can you do to make what you are doing easier to do?
  
Deal With Doing Something That Is Hard To Do
You are going to continue doing the difficult work you have to do to achieve your goal. Unfortunately you can't think of any way to make the work easier. Since you really want to achieve your goal you are willing to do the hard work. Keep at it. You can do it. Think of the saying "Anything Worth Having Is Worth Working For" and let this guide you and motivate you.
Deal With Doing Something That Is Hard To Do
You have decided you are going to continue working to achieve your goal. What you were doing was hard to do but you have found an easier way to do it. Try this easier way and see if it works. If it does great. Continue on. But if the easier way doesn't work you may have to go back to doing it the hard way. If this creates a problem then you should deal with it again.